Deutscher Live Sex

Dubai is characterized by luxury and opulence. If you want to shoot an AK out of a Lamborghini or long for an orgy in the desert, there’s someone out there to give it to you. Here is such a man.

Everyone knows something about Dubai , for better or for worse. It’s a fabulous place, always characterized by luxury and excesses. In other words, Dubai is a Las Vegas of the Middle East, if Las Vegas wore the burka.

It is the party city of the United Arab Emirates, where the pious can taste the dead fruit of their most carnal appetites, among nightclubs, fake islands, as well as the tallest and strangest skyscrapers and seven-star hotels stars.

Somewhere at the intersection of these juxtapositions lies the true character of this dilemmatic Arab spirit: a polity that is said to be united under the banner of the Ummah, but finds itself caught in endless perverse contradictions, civil wars and sectarian violence.

And sex.

I was there, a few years ago, when I realized how many sex workers were working in one hotel, sheltered by obscure wording and disguised proposals. “You can’t just ask them for sex here, bro,” I remember an American soldier telling me. “It’s old school , you have to go home with them and negotiate prices discreetly.”

I wanted to dig into the underbelly of this strange industry, so after a series of phone calls, a Ukrainian “fish” living in Dubai agreed to talk about his lucrative career.

He was a pale guy in a black suit with a diamond studded Rolex and a Burberry polo shirt. Next I leave you with what I learned from Alex* about what it’s like to manage sex workers in a country where sex work is both illegal and unmentionable.

The sex industry in Dubai for the rich of the planet

VICE: How did you end up working in the sex industry in Dubai?
Alex : I was working as a consultant at an engineering firm in Jeddah. As I moved up the corporate ladder, my job became more about spending time with clients traveling to Saudi Arabia and taking them on weekends to Dubai. I made some great connections and eventually moved to Dubai where I was subcontracted by various companies and banks to entertain their clients.

Like some kind of professional partier?

You’re right, there’s more to my job than being a fish or working with prostitutes. I take care of all the needs of my clients. We have relationships at all major hotels and night clubs. Whenever they receive celebrity guests who want to throw a party or treat their guests to something special.

Everyone who connects us gets a share of the money, and we’ve built our reputation on protecting our customers’ identities. I threw parties for celebrities, politicians and gangsters. We are all different, not everyone is into blonde women with big breasts, some rappers come and want to smoke weed in an underwater hotel, business people sometimes want to shoot AKs from camels or a Lamborghini in the desert.

I can help them enjoy life and forget about them when in Dubai. It’s heaven here for the bad guys and they can forget about the real world baby.

What was the most dodgy party you ever had to throw?

Once upon a time there was an American businessman who wanted ten burka-wearing sex workers waiting for him in a tent in the desert. We decked out the tent with sound systems, a jacuzzi outside, and enormous beds under the open sky. He made it clear … Full article

The days that the body can last without water, if you stop drinking, are three.

It enters a spiral in which blood pressure drops, the heart contracts less, sends less blood, circulatory shock occurs and death occurs.

However, no lack of sex brings the body to a critical point.

With this example, perhaps a bit macabre to start the morning, I wanted to reflect on something that is being mentioned a lot these days.

The debate over whether people with disabilities should be allowed to receive sexual assistance.

And it is that one of the main arguments used is that sex is also a need that needs to be covered.

However, as I mentioned, necessity is something essential, like water, food, the oxygen needed to breathe…

Sex, as much as it is attached to that word, does not enter the list.

Allowing it to become a reason to approve the figure of these sexual ‘assistants’ is opening the door to prostitution disguised as something it is not.

How not to extend it to more sectors of the population if we begin to raise our hands? If we give the green light, because we consider sex a basic right, it can also be claimed by a celibate person involuntarily.

Sexual exploitation sneaks up on us, especially if we take a look at who is demanding this ‘service’: mostly men.

But regardless of the demand, no one should become a means to sexual pleasure.

More so if the reason why he provides this assistance is money and not desire (the excuse that he does it of his own free will does not help me if he could dedicate himself to anything else, he would do it).

It is pulled from that pity that can produce the situation of inability to lead a sexual life like the rest . But the fact that it is not like the rest does not mean that you cannot have a sexual life.

Besides that it is the equivalent of denying that people with disabilities cannot be considered sexual partners.

In my opinion, the solution does not lie in regulating this assistance.

Yes in finding alternatives that allow people with disabilities to go out more, get to know each other and have enabled spaces where they can have sexual relations (if we have a bathroom for people with disabilities, why not a hotel room?).

Develop toys or tools that make it easier for them to enjoy their sexuality and, of course, provide specific training so that their partners -and themselves- can become familiar with their way of understanding sex.

That is what would really solve his desire to maintain an active sexual life (eye, desire, not need ).

Otherwise, what we are doing is putting a fish on the table instead of teaching them how to fish.… Full article

If you want the girl you like to not stop thinking about you, «be the first to leave a conversation», «upload photos with attractive women», « fuck her» …

These are some of the tips that certain “experts” in love share on their social networks so that their followers, mostly men, learn what they consider basic notions of flirting.

It doesn’t stop there, of course.

What these digital gurus, who are allies of Cupid, publish are just little pills that serve as a hook for the real objective, that their followers end up buying their courses or participating in their camps.

And you might think that, seeing as his advice is somewhere between a 2000s rom-com and what we think of as toxic masculinity today, it doesn’t go far.

But the truth is that their popularity is through the roof and, what is worse, those who follow them really believe their two main maxims: the first is that all women are equal, a uniform mass ready to be hunted by them with their manual of tactics.

Second, those tactics work.

What they really encourage is to acquire a series of behaviours that are incompatible with a healthy relationship.

In short, whoever ends up betting on making me feel that ‘I have competition’, that they leave me in read or that they do not treat me in a good way is the kind of person I do not want in my life.

Because those old theories that the more you like a person, the more you have to ignore them so that they pay attention to you, that you only have to think about yourself or that you have to always be unattainable and indomitable -without writing to them every day or showing interest-, It’s something that has stayed with when we were 15 years old.

What’s more, they are things that are so familiar to us because they are the same ones that Mario Casas did playing Hache in Tres metros sobre el cielo.

The 12 years that have passed since the premiere of the film have not passed in vain. The protagonists have grown, like us. And we don’t want that treatment from anyone anymore.

Calling you “ugly” is no longer a good sign. It’s something you interpret as red flag.

The same thing happens when he strictly follows those hypermasculine attitudes that are applauded so much in the courses. With signs of violence or detachment, being unable to talk about his own feelings.

The idea that man must be something emotionally unattainable and must flee from all kinds of commitment is maintained.

It is not that we seek to become the center of the universe by having our crush tied to the table leg so that we never lose sight of him.

We want freedom for both members. And what we are not going to pass -nor accept as a method of flirting- is to be treated with contempt or indifference.

For this reason, I would love to tell those trashy experts that the best way to reach someone is through respect, care, dedication of time, desire, sincere communication, tenderness…

Because where they make us feel good, there it is.… Full article

If you live with other people, it’s common to want to know how to hide sex toys to ensure that no curious find what they shouldn’t, right? The truth is that many people want to have sex toys, but are afraid that others will know about their intimacy, so they end up leaving the desire aside or not buying the models they really want.

In addition to looking for discreet vibrator options , you can count on these 10 tips to hide your toys in places safe for them and not let anyone but you find them. Want to know what the best methods are? So come with me and read until the end to know the care you have to take when storing your toys !

How to hide sex toys in a shoebox

Shoe boxes are very common in our daily lives, so they are excellent places to hide vibrators and other erotic items. Usually, when we buy shoes, we end up using the boxes to store them, right? Or even to store other things and those things can be your sex toys.

To make sure they don’t draw attention, choose a box that is unaltered, still has the shoe’s branding and tag, and is in an understated or the same color as other boxes. Then place it under other boxes so that it is more difficult to access . Even if a curious person touches your shoes, it will be difficult to get to her.

Here, it is important to leave each toy in individual bags before placing them in the box, preferably small packages that close so that they do not collect dust or keep touching each other. Also, don’t dispense a few sprays of alcohol in the box to sanitize it before storing the toys!

Hide your sex toys in the pillow

Another tip on how to hide sex toys is to place them in the middle of the pillow. Here, it’s interesting that it’s a pillow that you don’t use on a daily basis, you know those that decorate the bed? Or the ones reserved for when you have visitors.

It’s also important to opt for fuller pillows, both to hide the toy well and so you don’t get hurt if you use your own pillow. If you want to hide a rabbit vibrator in a thin pillow, it sure won’t be discreet. Then, consider the size of the toy you are going to hide to define the thickness of the pillow . You can store more than one toy on the same pillow, but don’t make them too tight. Oh, and the tip of the individual bags also fits here.

Cushions to hide the vibrators

In addition to pillows, pillows are also good choices to hide your sex toys. The interesting thing is that they are even more unusual, as they are not only in an intimate room like the bedroom. This factor makes it more difficult for a curious person to find, after all, who will imagine that there is a vibrator inside the pillow?

To be well hidden, I advise choosing this hiding place for smaller toys, such as bullets or some models of small suckers. The pillow should be very fluffy, with a denser foam, so it is not easy to feel the toy inside. In addition, it is important that it has a zipper, as if it were on the cover, but that makes it easy to put the toy in and out when necessary.

Hide the sex toys behind the clothes in the drawer

This tip is … Full article